remove dead code and unused dependencies

ok tb@

Start porting smtpd to libtls.

Note that it changes the way SNI works: The certificate to use is now
selected by looking at the names found in the certificates themselves,
rather than the names of t

Start porting smtpd to libtls.

Note that it changes the way SNI works: The certificate to use is now
selected by looking at the names found in the certificates themselves,
rather than the names of the pki entries in the configuration file.
The set of certificates for a tls listener must be defined explicitly by
using the pki listener option multiple times.

ok tb@

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Implement server certificate validation in smtp(1).
Check certificate against MX name in smtpd(8) mta.

ok gilles@

change "ssl" to "tls" in various identifiers.
no functional change.

ok gilles@

add a simple SMTP client

ok gilles@